How to Cope with Political Events

In today’s world, it seems like political events are always in the headlines, shaping our lives in ways both subtle and dramatic. Whether it’s an election, a global crisis, or local political movements, the constant stream of political news can be overwhelming. As a psychologist, I see firsthand how these events impact mental health, often causing anxiety, depression, and a sense of powerlessness. For many men, political events can prompt unique emotional responses that may not always be addressed, but still adversely impact mental health. Therapy provides strategies that can help men cope with political events in a healthy and constructive way. Here are some key insights on managing the emotional toll that political events can have on your well-being, particularly when it comes to men’s issues and the challenges that arise.

1. Acknowledge Your Feelings

The first step in coping with political events is to recognize and acknowledge your emotional response. It’s normal to feel upset, anxious, or frustrated when events seem to be out of your control. Whether you’re feeling anger at policies you disagree with, fear about the future, or confusion about what is happening, your emotions are valid.

As a men’s therapist, I often see how societal expectations of men—like being strong, stoic, or detached from emotion—can make it harder to express feelings of vulnerability. However, acknowledging how you feel, without judgment or shame, is crucial. Men’s therapy can help you navigate these emotions effectively, enabling you to manage your stress and anxiety in a more balanced way.

2. Limit Exposure to News

In the age of 24/7 news cycles, it's easy to become consumed by political events. While staying informed is important, too much exposure to negative or distressing information can contribute to anxiety and stress, particularly for men who might already feel pressured to respond in a way that aligns with social expectations of toughness. If you find that the news is causing you distress, it may be time to take a step back.

Try limiting your news consumption to a specific time of day, and focus on reliable sources that provide a balanced perspective. This can help you avoid the constant barrage of sensational headlines and the overwhelming feeling that you're always in the loop. For many men, understanding that it’s okay to take breaks and prioritize mental health over constant engagement with the news can be a powerful step toward emotional wellness.

3. Engage in Meaningful Action

While political events can often feel beyond our control, a helpful way to cope may by engaging in meaningful action. Action can help shift focus from feelings of helplessness to empowerment. Whether it’s volunteering, contacting a friend, or engaging in a hobby, taking steps to align your actions with your values can create a sense of agency and purpose.

For therapy for men, focusing on constructive actions can provide a healthy outlet for the frustration and stress many men experience during times of political unrest. Even small actions, like having conversations with others about how political events are impacting you, can lessen feelings of helplessness.

4. Set Boundaries with Political Discussions

Political debates and discussions, especially on social media, can sometimes escalate quickly into heated arguments that leave everyone feeling drained. Setting boundaries around political conversations is vital for maintaining your mental well-being. As men, there can be additional societal pressure to "fight" for your position in a discussion, but it's essential to know when to step back.

It’s okay to say no to discussions that make you uncomfortable or that aren’t constructive. If someone is trying to engage you in a debate that feels too intense or hostile, kindly explain that you would prefer not to participate. Setting these boundaries can protect your emotional space, making it easier to avoid feeling overwhelmed, angry, or reactive.

5. Foster Community and Support

In difficult times, it’s crucial to seek out support and foster a sense of community. Connecting with others who share your values or who can offer a different perspective can provide emotional comfort and reduce feelings of isolation. This is especially important for men, who are sometimes conditioned to avoid reaching out for emotional support. Whether it’s joining a political group, participating in community organizations, or simply talking to friends and family, support networks can help you process your thoughts and feelings.

Having healthy spaces to discuss your thoughts and emotions, both in private and public settings, is essential for coping with political events. These types of conversations are not only empowering but can also provide valuable perspectives that challenge your own beliefs in constructive ways.

6. Practice Self-Compassion

The stress of political events can sometimes lead to self-criticism or feelings of inadequacy. You may find yourself doubting your ability to make a difference, or feeling overwhelmed by the state of the world. In these moments, it’s important to practice self-compassion. Men are often taught to push through difficult emotions, but self-compassion is crucial for long-term emotional well-being.

7. Seek Professional Help When Needed

Finally, if political events are causing you significant distress or affecting your ability to function, don’t hesitate to seek professional support. Speaking with a psychologist, particularly one who specializes in therapy for men, can provide you with tools to manage anxiety and stress, as well as offer a space to process difficult emotions.

I have worked with many men who have sought therapy in order to stay emotionally resilient in challenging times. If political events are affecting your mental health, reaching out for support is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Final Thoughts

For men, prioritizing emotional wellness in the face of political stress is crucial, and seeking support through therapy can be a powerful tool in helping you stay grounded and resilient. If you are interested in a phone consultation to see if therapy can be beneficial for you, please feel free to check the “Make an Appointment” tab on the homepage.

-Mike Morin, Ph.D.

Therapy with men is different. Choosing a therapist who understands these differences matters.

My interest in men’s issues began while working at a community mental health agency. I was the only male therapist on staff which meant any male client who requested a male was automatically matched with me. I became curious about some recurring themes I heard in the therapy room. My training at this agency eventually concluded, but my interest in men’s issues persisted.

I joined the U.S. Navy as an active duty psychologist to continue to provide mental health services to men. My experiences in the Navy have shown me that there are common beliefs men have regarding seeking therapy.

“I should be able to do it on my own.”

Most men arrive to a therapist’s waiting room with ambivalence. They have been instructed to be ruggedly individualistic since childhood, and when this fails, they are at a loss as to how to solicit help. The therapeutic process is fundamentally about collaboration and recognition rather than individualism. Journeying with men while they understand their psychological needs for relationships can be a highly curative factor.

“Behavior should be valued over feelings.”

Most men are socialized to believe that feelings are unproductive. They may rhetorically ask, “Why feel sad? Sadness over a loss will not undo the loss.” In these instances, therapy can be helpful to understand flexible emotional expression. While feeling sadness is not going to undo a loss, feeling sad may help unresolved grief.

“I don’t have a problem feeling emotions. I get angry all the time.”

Anger is an emotion that some men are not afraid to feel because it propels them toward action. Inaction is often avoided by men as it can be associated with weakness, indecisiveness, or other traits stereotypically opposed to what they believe a man should be. Therapy illuminates how other emotional processes can also promote action, such as approach instead of avoidance after experiencing shame.

“I’ve tried therapy before but I ended before I felt better.”

Men have historically lower rates of mental health seeking behavior than their female counterparts. They may also end therapy prematurely when compared to women. This unfortunate reality may be reduced if men are informed about the process of therapy from the beginning. Reminding men that participating in therapy may elicit conflict with earlier messages they’ve received about masculinity (e.g.., that it’s difficult to relinquish control and vulnerability is not weakness) can help to improve success in therapy.

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